But what should be the age difference between them? However, my focus actually is to create a balance here and to help those who are in such relationships where the woman is older than the man to actually get things right.Several relationships where the woman is older than the man - especially in Africa - are facing rejections, oppositions, and mockery because people feel such relationships are against norms, and they should not be accepted. Like I said earlier, this may not really be an issue in the Western world, because of the 'anything goes' kind of life people live over there and the freedom of choice the constitution has given everyone.Especially when the woman is significantly older than the man, one problem the couple might face is separate definition of fun.
But if you think you feel good with such relationship, isn't it still good to wait a minute to count the cost?
Please don't get me wrong; I do not say it is evil for a woman to marry a younger man, but I think it is advisable for both parties to critically count the cost first.
That leaves 14.2 percent of all husbands who are at least two years younger than their wives.
Two important questions we must ask ourselves are: Is there any danger in such a marriage where wives are older than their husbands?
This is not because God gave a specific instruction concerning this, but it has been an acceptable practice among men throughout history.