If it is not, then he should stop the parasitic behavior and stand on his own two feet.A person who remains married for the children’s sake, but is separated and dating, refuses to be what a parent should be. A parent who thinks she gives her children comfort by not pursuing divorce breaks their hearts if she dates.
While attaining that time out sounds like a good idea, typically it is not. Because once they experience the relief, it is difficult to go back into the unpleasant task of figuring out how to solve the problems.
Our experience with helping couples indicates that separation facilitates divorce, but seldom facilitates reconciliation.
On October 18, the board of The King’s College accepted Dinesh’s resignation. Usually that leads to strife, anger, and other negative experiences.
They incorporated a prayer into their minutes that included this sentence, “All-too-frequent reports of the sinful failing of our accomplished leaders bring us no joy.” Subsequently, Dinesh announced that he is suspending his engagement to Denise. Therefore, the act of separation immediately brings a sense of relief and calm because they are not constantly at each other’s throats.
Is it okay for a married but separated person to date other people? The situation that brought it to the forefront is not unique.